Friday, April 10, 2009

Fun Photo Friday

Because I missed Retro Wednesday this week, I am stealing Cari's Fun Photo Friday.

This past Monday Mark and I celebrated out 7th wedding anniversary. This is a picture of us leaving a historic mansion in downtown Dallas. Just hours before we were married on that same staircase with a huge Tiffany glass window lit up behind us. It was hard to choose which wedding pic to post. It was an amazingly wonderful day!



And on Tuesday, my sister celebrated her birthday. It's not my place to say how old she turned this year ;) This is a picture of Dawn, Mom, and I on Christmas morning in my mom's old loft downtown. I am guessing it was 1999.



Happy birthday Sissy!

Thursday, April 9, 2009

Need Help Please!!!

Savannah goes to the dentist for the first time next week and she is terrified! I have no idea why she is scared. She knows nothing of the potential use of drills, needles, and other scary metal instruments.
None the less, she is frightened and I need a way to subdue her fears. Do any of y'all know of a book or 2 geared towards dentistry and children? I wish there was a Curious George Goes to the Dentist!
Any help or ideas is greatly appreciated!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

The Long and Winding Road

By 5:30 AM everyone in the house was up with the exception of Savannah. Peeps (A.K.A. Peepaw, Doug, my step-dad) turned on the weather while we greased up our feet with Vaseline and awaited our carefully pre-planned, pre-event breakfast. The high temperature was estimated to be 61 degrees with winds up to 45 miles per hour. Yikes!

Due to the weather predictions the day before, we had not planned for it to be that cold. We made outfit adjustments, packed our camelpacs and set off for our adventure with a little anxiety of the unknown and lots of excitement.

By the way, I could probably write a good size novella on the events of this past Sunday. But for the sake of every body's time and attention spans, I will edit my thoughts before typing and keep this thing moderately short.

Now, back to my story. The energy of a thousand people waiting at the start line is equivalent to a double shot espresso. The gun went off and everyone cheered as they took off. It took some time for the large crowd to pass over the start line. As we made our way over the line most of the people around us began to run. My adrenaline started pumping and I had to mentally control every muscle in my body and tell myself not to run. I felt like an overexcited puppy on a leash that was not allowed to run off and play with the other rambunctious puppies!

My mother quickly told me that we agreed to walk this thing not run and under no circumstances would she be running today. So, I harnessed my race day excitement and settled into "walking the marathon" mode. Although I was initially caught up in the moment of race day excitement, it did not dampen my spirits to be walking instead of running. But it did get me fired up to run one next time!

Everyone (Mandy, Mom, and myself) was doing well until we hit White Rock Lake just a few miles into the race. A couple of runners passed Mom and unintentionally kicked gravel into her shoe. When I looked back she was sitting down beside the course. I told Mandy to go on and I ran back to Mom.

She had taken off her shoe in attempt to get the gravel out. But if you take your shoe off mid-event, it's never the same. She ended up have lots of foot problems throughout the race.

Our next hurtle was around the corner. We turned north to walk several miles beside White Rock Lake heading straight into 45 mile an hour winds. The wind chill coming off the lake was 31 degrees. To say it was brutal is an understatement. We literally had to push off into the wind with so much force that it felt like we were on a stair stepper the whole time.

By the time we went through several miles of that, Mom was in severe pain from her foot and now exhausted from the wind. And if your feet are not feeling good, nothing is feeling good. Mom started to fall way behind Mandy and I. I would run back and check on her periodically (I was happy that I got to run a little of the marathon!) and then run back to Mandy. Eventually she fell so far back that we could not turn around and see her. That time when I ran back to her she announced that she was dropping out. This was at mile 12.

The next week she went to her chiropractor and he said if she had continued the race she would have had permanent nerve damage in her left foot. Luckily she was smart enough to know that her foot was seriously injured and that she should not attempt to finish.

Mandy and I however, did press on. But suddenly we noticed we were all alone. Most of the walkers turned off for the path of the 1/2 marathon. I reassured Mandy that that just means we are among the elite walkers and not a slacker who takes the 1/2 way path. I'm not sure she was convinced.

The marathon Mom did before had tons of walkers. This one unfortunately did not. Soon the couple behind us dropped out. That put Mandy and I at the end of the race, hours behind the runners. Rumor has it that there were 2 other walkers in front of us on the course but we never saw them. It began to get lonely.

Since this marathon allows walkers, the course is suppose to stay open 6 1/2 hours to allow enough time for them to complete the event. But on the 17th mile we saw the people at one of the water stations shutting down. This worried us a little. The cones marking the race were still out and we still saw signs directing us so once again we pressed on.

After a few more miles we noticed there were no more water stations open and the police escorts had now disappeared. The course looked vacant and worry began to set in. Our psyche was now thrown off and we started to get a little down.

About that time a lady who worked for the company putting on the race drove by to tell us that the course would close in an hour and she asked us if we wanted a ride back. Excuse me? So you want me to quit after 19 miles so that you can go home early? Or worse, do you think I can't finish this thing? Nothing infuriates me more than someone thinking that I can't do something. Especially if I know I can.

The lady must have seen red flames shooting from the top of my head as she said this because then her reply was, "I'm just relaying the message."

I replied in a decent tone for someone who just invested 19 miles, "Walkers are allowed in this marathon and the course should be open for another hour and we will be on it. We are not quitting."

Seriously, nothing worse than someone trying to get you to quit during a long endurance event. Most people are already trying to talk themselves out of quitting and then to have the event coordinators suggest it!

At this point we are feeling bummed and all alone. Although we were still able to follow the cones, there were no more mileage signs or signs with arrows and directions. This fact further depleted out moral. Try as I might, I could no longer get a laugh out of Mandy. I on the other hand was still furious that someone thought we might not finish (we were moving VERY fast, in the wind. We just weren't running.). I wanted to run the last 7 miles but Mandy's feet were on fire and every step was painful. She was regretting not going to Run On and getting a new pair of shoes. But, there was nothing we could do about it at this point.

(Almost done. I promise this is much less detail than I could give you!)

As if things could not get any worse, the cones stopped at an intersection. We had no idea which way to go. I guessed and it turn out I guessed wrong. We went a mile or two way off course. Who knows how far we really went off course because there were no mile markers on or off the course!

Now we were lost, unable to finish the course after so many hours, and on the verge of tears (mine being tears of fury and Mandy's from pain and exhaustion). I have never felt so alone and abandoned in all my life. How could they put on a race then leave us out here!? They pulled the water stations, cones, signs, policemen...everything. They never came back to check on us.

By this time, Peeps, Mom, and Savannah were on their way. They found us and without asking us if we wanted to finish the marathon (they knew better) they drove us back to the course. Peepaw got on his bike and rode us in. And thank goodness he did because by then we were over by Fair Park with NO police protection!!! That's the ghetto people.

One last corner and we could finally see the finish line. Mom and Savannah were there cheering along with some staff. Mandy and I ran those last few feet.
Savannah gave me a big hug and asked if I won. Let me tell you, anyone who get's out there and even tries is a winner.

What did I learn? I LOVE LOVE LOVE long endurance events. I could have pushed myself much further physically (but mentally I was shot!) and plan to do so in the future. However, I did tell Mark that I will not do more than one marathon a year because of the time it takes away from my family. Mandy and I do plan to run a 1/2 marathong in October and my Mom and my aunt AJ plan to walk it. We also learned that the Big D marathon is not well run but I had read several reviews that said that very thing online.

But above all I would do it again. I think I have found my athletic niche!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Annie Get Your Gun!

Saturday night Mandy and I stayed at my Mom's in preparation for our Sunday morning marathon in Dallas. Being an experienced competition athlete, my step dad (Peepaw) sent us off to bed around 10pm so that we would be well rested for the race. I was wired with excitement and could not force myself to drift off to sleep. Finally, sleep was conquered for me sometime around 11:45.

The next thing I heard was a loud crash sounding like glass breaking. I jolted awake and my mind began to process the sound. Was it a cat? No, I am not at home and Mom has no animals. My brain scanned the rational possibilities and could only come up with the idea that it was an intruder. At that moment there was another crash that sounded like glass breaking once again. I glanced at the clock and noticed it was 3:30 AM. No one in the house should be up, so who is it?

I ran into Mom and Doug's room and told them someone was breaking in. I grabbed the phone ready to call 911 and asked for the gun. This is the second time in my life I have had no problem using a gun on an intruder. And the funny thing is, I hate guns. Mark has taken me out to the farm many times to teach me how to shoot and reload. Each time I begrudgingly listen and learn. But a few years ago I was home alone and I heard a noise at my bedroom door and with no fear I grabbed the gun (I sleep with a shotgun if Mark is out of town!) and headed for the criminal. As I rounded the corner and pointed the gun, I almost shot our cat. Poor Java. She really does have 9 lives!

Back to Saturday night, Peepaw ran into the living room to fight off the prowler and I devised a plan. Mandy was still in her room so I was going to call her and tell her to climb out her window. Mom and Savannah were with me at the back of the house and I was about to open the window, bust out the screen and escape.

As I was about to initiate my plan of action Peepaw came back and said he forgot to close the window above the kitchen sink and the shades blew down and knocked several things into the kitchen sink. He searched the house several times but there was no perp.

Whew! That was a close one! No need to implement my Charlie's Angels routine. But do you think any of us went back to sleep? Oh, no. My adrenaline (which needed to be saved for the following day) was flowing like Niagra Falls.

At 5:20 AM I was still awake so I decided to go ahead and start preparing for our big day. My concern? If the wind was already blowing hard enough to break things inside the house, what was it going to do to us for 26.22 miles outside the house?

To be continued...

Saturday, April 4, 2009

I Am A Robot!

Finally, here are pictures from the 2nd half of Savannah's birthday.

Donnis came over to entertain the children with Robot Kindermusik especially designed for Savannah to include all her favorite intergalactic robots. Donnis did an AMAZING job. This experience may have even topped Disney World in Savannah's opinion because it was catered just to her.

Donnis started out the party with everyone's favorite, percussion instruments!
I posted this picture because you can tell Savannah's eyes are already lit with excitement and anticipation. Meadow on the other hand must of hit an unappealing note on her triangle.




Savannah and Donnis singing hello to everyone.



Girls giggling with glee!



I am a robot! We sing this song all day long now! We also love the Wall-e Loves Eva song. Donnis picked some jammin' music.



I love watching Donnis' animated face. This is why Savannah has been drawn to her since birth! She really has a gift with music and children.



Robot sounds, R2D2 & C3PO. Suprisingly, she was not the only child who knew these characters.



Waving hand in the air, cause their "feelin' all right"!



Hunching down like WALL-E asleep.



Burton and Nannie watching all the maddness.



Sheer joy on Savannah's face as she runs under the parachute with robot balls on top. At one point in the party Savannah ran over to me, hugged me and said, "I AM HAVING SO MUCH FUN!" It was precious to see that much pure joy.



Lining up to march in for cake and ice cream to Star Wars music.



The day finished off with the much anticipated robot cake and ice cream.

Thursday, April 2, 2009

The Big Day

It was the morn of Savannah's 4th birthday when I turned the corner and saw the view of the pic below. From all appearances the world had turned tospy turvy. My child was sitting on the counter, eating cereal out of the box while her grandfather, great grandmother, and Dad watched. Did I miss something?



After a round of hugs, kisses, happy birthday wishes, and full aknowledgement that rules were out the window for the day, lots of family came over for a birthday lunch and presents.



Savannah's geunine joy over the presents prompted a round of hugs. Although all were captured, only a few are posted here. None the less, they were all priceless.



I have no idea what she is doing here. Funny face though.




We have already read this book 100 times.



The serious videographer.



The audience




Savannah and Pa



Savannah and Uncle Allen



Savannah and Ella



Savannah, Ella, and Burton. Savannah has on Ella's shoes. Not sure when that happened.



Savannah wanted me to take a picture with her new "babies," WALL-E and Eve. She couldn't stop looking at them long enough to look up and smile. They have not parted yet!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

So proud...

Tonight Savannah asked, "Mom, what's a 'drive-through'?"

So proud. So proud.

No Mickey D's in this household! (But she has been through a Starbucks drive-through a time or 2! Not for her, but for me of course.)